What love is?

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so, i was wondering this morning. how do we know what love is? how do we learn to love? is is learned or are we born with it ? how about those that have no reference about love? how about those whose love had some twisted meaning due to others frustration..

i can only speak for myself when i say that i learned about love from my godfather and my great grand father. those two man meant the world to me, they made a diffrence in my life that will forever dictate what i believe to be love. they never say it, but it was simply not needed i felt it everyday, it made me feel so secure and up until this day i feel their love especially during lonely times, i will admit that i do talk to them and ask them to guide me.

i often wondered before whether i would find someone that made me feel the love my two guardian angels made me feel and im so happy to share that i believe i finally found someone that in all honesty makes me feels the same way. it might sound corny but i feel the love and all i need is to be myself and allow this man to love me ( i'm used to loving but was barely reciprocated).

i guess people might ask about my parents, whether i learned about love from them, well it is complicated to explain but i did felt love from them, i still do but my godfather and great grand father did not have to love me but they chose to and always welcome and accepted me with open arms.

my two angels love have survive death, they both died more than 10 years ago but not a day pass by that i dont carry their love for me, i will not accept anything less than what they gave me because to them i was special and so i should remain that way.

what got me thinking about this? well, i was just wondering ( i do wonder a lot) how some people really cant automatically recognize love especially if they never felt the right kind of love, i understand that love have different meaning for different people but the basis component is acceptance, unconditional and unrestrained.

for those fortunate enough to have felt love it becomes easy to share it and embrace it, for others not as fortunate its never too late, life gives plenty of opportunity to feel love and if in doubt then go look at a baby, a rose , a bird, you will with out a doubt feel something and that is a start. it is never too late to feel love , im just glad my two man left me enough to survive my days on earth.